Let’s talk about something a little unexpected: genital worship. And no, this doesn’t mean asking your partner to build an altar for your dick. Sure, maybe it’s something we’d all like to experience at some point, but here’s the twist: you can actually do this for your partner. Imagine this not as a routine or something you simply do, but as a mindset—a way of honoring, even celebrating, your partner’s body in a way that’s profound yet playful, sincere but a little edgy.
Genital worship isn’t about being overly serious or ceremonial; it’s about stepping into intimacy with a sense of reverence, touching, looking, even just being in a way that says, “I see you. I respect you. I’m here with you.” And sure, it can get a little rebellious, maybe even kinky. Think about it: in gay sex, it’s common to hear a lot of dick appreciation. In straight sex, it’s all about commenting on her ass or her tits. But how often do we really give attention to her pussy? Have we just learned to praise the usual suspects—tits and ass—and stopped there?
But let’s get into why this matters. Genital worship is more than just an unusual idea to throw into your intimacy toolkit—it’s a chance to completely reframe the way you connect. When you approach your partner’s body with reverence, it’s like saying, “I’m here to really see you.” Not just in a passing, going-through-the-motions kind of way, but with full presence, like they’re the main event and you’re honored to be there. So much of sex can get caught up in routines, checklists, or assumptions about what’s “normal.” Genital worship breaks those walls down. It’s a way to slow down, go deeper—a flattery-kinky-reflective-pause, like walking down the street, catching sight of a total stunner, and thinking, daaaaamn. And that doesn’t mean you need candles and chanting—it just means you’re showing that you genuinely appreciate your partner’s body, fully and without distractions.
Genital Worshipping 101: Flattering Your Partner in All the Right Ways
Have you ever really told your partner what you adore about them? And not just in passing, but with real, unfiltered appreciation. Just like anyone, we all have insecurities about how we look, and that definitely includes how we feel about our most intimate parts. A little reverence can go a long way—letting them know exactly what you love, whether it’s the appearance, scent, taste, or how it all just feels right. Think of this as a raw celebration of their body, focusing on what’s real, what’s present, and what makes them unique. Here are some examples to get you started:
For vulvas, let’s shift the focus to what she might rarely hear:
“I love the softness of your skin down there.”
“The color of your pussy is beautiful.”
“I love how wet you are for me.”
“Your scent drives me wild—I want all of you.”
Or get more personal:
“I love how smooth you feel.”
“Your taste is incredible.”
And if you want to go beyond words, try these intimate gestures:
Take a moment to simply gaze at her—no rush, just taking in her beauty.
Gently massage her thighs, labia, and around her pussy to show your admiration through touch.
Embrace her scent and taste fully, letting her know you’re enjoying every part of her, no reservations.
The key is to be sincere. Don’t try to force words or say things you don’t mean. Take a moment to actually appreciate them—let your words come from what you genuinely love about their body.
For dicks, yeah, it’s common to compliment the size, but there’s so much more than just that. Sure, you could say:
“Your dick is driving me crazy.”
“I crave it—there’s nothing I want more.”
“I love how hard you are right now.”
Or, if that’s not your angle, dig into specifics:
“I love how it feels when you’re deep inside me.”
“I’m addicted to how thick you feel.”
“Your cock is perfect for me.”
And if you’re looking to go beyond words, try adding some physical gestures to show your admiration. Letting the weight of your partner’s cock rest on your face or giving it a playful slap against your cheek can be a fun, intimate way to communicate just how much you’re enjoying them. These small, physical actions can say a lot—often more than words—about how much you’re craving and worshipping every part of them. If you’re into this kind of worship yourself, now you know what to ask for—a little extra attention and appreciation goes a long way.
So, if you’re wondering how to get a little worship yourself, remember, sometimes it’s just about starting the conversation. If it feels weird to say, “Hey, I’d love to hear this stuff more often,” don’t sweat it—just share this article with your partner and let them take the hint. Who doesn’t want to feel like a king or queen every now and then? It’s all about creating a space where you can both feel seen, appreciated, and maybe even a little adored. So go ahead, open that door. Remember, it’s just one conversation away.
A really compelling and sensational article - loved reading something that’s so refreshingly "out there" but not shocking at all