Oral sex—there’s nothing quite like it. Being on the receiving end of someone’s undivided attention, every kiss, every touch making you feel like the center of the universe. It’s powerful. But have you ever thought about how insane it would be if they could come while going down on you? If pleasure wasn’t a one-way street but a two-sided, electrified current?
We recently dove into how “receiving more head” with sexologist Erin Alexander on the podcast, but today, we’re flipping the perspective.
This isn’t about getting better at taking—it’s about turning oral into a mutual experience. Sure, 69 is the classic go-to, but let’s push the boundaries and explore new ways to turn giving and receiving into one seamless, mind-blowing loop.
Toys to Enhance the Giver’s Experience, let's bring more pleasure!
Let’s start with the simplest ways for the giving partner to experience pleasure while staying fully engaged. These toys are designed to keep their hands busy while they focus on delivering the oral experience you both crave. With one hand working the toy and the other free for support or added intimacy, these options make it easy to enjoy giving as much as receiving.
Handheld Options For Her (Giver):
Classic Vibrators and Rabbit Masturbatores and Double Stimulators:
These timeless toys bring clitoral or dual stimulation into the mix, adding a layer of pleasure for the giver during oral play. The Satisfyer - Planet Wand-er Rechargeable Silicone Body Massager offers broad, powerful vibrations perfect for teasing or relieving tension, while the LELO - Enigma Rechargeable Dual Stimulator delivers simultaneous G-spot and clitoral stimulation with elegant, whisper-quiet functionality.
For a playful twist, the Satisfyer - Threesome 3 Rechargeable Silicone Stimulator targets multiple zones with its unique design, while the Satisfyer - Spinning G-Spot 1 Rechargeable Silicone Vibrator combines rotating motions with gentle vibration for enhanced internal stimulation. And for focused clitoral pleasure, the Satisfyer - Ultra Power Bullet 4 Rechargeable Silicone Bullet Vibrator packs intense power into a compact, easy-to-hold design.
Handheld Options For Him (Giver):
The SVAKOM - SAM NEO 2 PRO Interactive Heating, Sucking & Vibrating Masturbator offers lifelike suction and warming sensations, enhancing pleasure while your partner focuses on oral. The LOVENSE - Kraken Egg – Pocket-Sized Masturbator is small, textured, and easy to handle, making it an excellent choice for quick, focused stimulation. The Lovense - Max 2 Masturbator stands out with its app compatibility, allowing you, as the receiver, to control the sensations your partner feels, adding an interactive element to the experience. Meanwhile, the KIIROO - FeelSensation Stroker and KIIROO - Pocket Stroker and PowerBlow Combo offer ergonomic designs and powerful vibrations, perfect for a giver seeking pleasure without breaking rhythm.
Hands-Free Pleasure
For her, hands-free pleasure while giving oral can unlock a new world of sensations. The JimmyJane - Form 2 Kegel Rechargeable Silicone Stimulator with Remote Control is a standout. With app compatibility, the receiver can control the vibrations, delivering deep, internal stimulation while she’s focused on giving. Imagine the thrill of syncing your climaxes, creating an unparalleled shared experience. For more intense external stimulation, the Ouch! Vibrating Strap-On Panty Harness with Open Back Rechargeable offers discreet, hands-free pleasure, ensuring her focus remains on her partner without sacrificing her own enjoyment.
When it comes to him, table clamp setups offer a perfect hands-free solution. The KIIROO - Keon Combo Set Rechargeable Interactive Masturbator with Stroker and Lovense - Solace Pro Masturbator can be secured in place, allowing the giver to experience lifelike sensations without lifting a finger. The app-controlled functionality lets the receiving partner manage the intensity, creating a dynamic loop of mutual pleasure. For couples who prefer versatility, vibrating cock rings like the Lovense - Diamo Remote Controlled Vibrating Silicone Cock Ring and the Stamina Trainer: Vibrating Dual-Touch Penis Ring provide consistent stimulation to the giver. They enhance erections and deliver vibrations that resonate throughout the act, intensifying the shared experience.
The Kiiroo Keon deserves special mention for its versatility. When paired with accessories like the multifunctional pillow or table clamp, opens up a world of hands-free possibilities during intimate moments. Imagine being stimulated by the Keon while you're going down on your partner—the device securely positioned at the perfect angle, allowing you to focus entirely on their pleasure while receiving your own. Alternatively, with the Keon adapted into a fuck machine setup, your partner can experience rhythmic penetration while they pleasure you orally, creating a deeply connected and immersive experience for both.
For a final touch, Anal vibration toys can bring an entirely new dimension to your shared experiences, regardless of your dynamic. Devices like the Lovense Hush Vibrating Butt Plug or the We-Vibe Ditto Plug offer app-controlled options, letting your partner control the intensity while you stay fully engaged in the act.
These tools can add layers of stimulation, complementing the connection between giving and receiving. The focus here is on clear communication—discussing comfort, limits, and preferences ensures that you’re both on the same page, turning curiosity into a rewarding and intensely physical experience.
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