In the latest episode of our podcast, Beyond Taboo, we had the privilege of speaking with Erin A. Alexander, a Certified Clinical Sexologist and Licensed Professional Counselor with over 20 years of experience. Erin’s work primarily focuses on military and veteran populations, men’s sexual health, and alternative lifestyle matters, including consensual non-monogamy. Her deep expertise and unique perspective offered a wealth of insights that are both enlightening and relevant to many of our listeners.
Addressing the Needs of Military Men
Erin shared her journey into specializing in the military and veteran culture, highlighting the challenges and rewards of working with this group. Living in a city known for its military presence, Erin’s extensive training covers deployment issues, combat-related trauma, and transitioning from active service to civilian life. She discussed how these experiences shape the needs and concerns of military men, particularly around performance anxiety and intimate relationships.
The Struggles with Performance Anxiety in Military Men
A key focus of our conversation was the impact of performance anxiety on military men. Erin explained that while around 17% of men generally experience some form of sexual performance anxiety, this issue is often compounded in military settings. Factors such as high stress, frequent relocations, and exposure to trauma contribute to unique challenges. Erin emphasized the importance of understanding the distinction between orgasm and ejaculation and how cultural messages and expectations can exacerbate performance issues.
The Influence of Trauma on Military Men’s Sexual Health
Erin also delved into the effects of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) and other forms of trauma on sexual health. She described how trauma can lead to emotional detachment, isolation, and difficulties in intimate relationships. Understanding the severe nature of PTSD as a standalone diagnosis rather than just a form of anxiety is crucial in addressing the complex ways it manifests in sexual behavior.
Success Stories and Personal Growth
One of the most inspiring aspects of our discussion was Erin’s sharing of success stories. Many of her clients have successfully managed their performance anxiety through dedicated work and interventions. Erin highlighted that the journey to overcoming these challenges involves building self-confidence and self-love, rather than relying solely on quick fixes. Her stories illustrated how personal growth and a supportive approach can lead to meaningful improvements in intimate health.
Why You Should Listen
While this article provides a glimpse into the valuable topics covered with Erin A. Alexander, there’s much more to discover in the full podcast episode. Erin’s insights into the complexities of sexual health, particularly within the military context, offer a deep understanding of how to address these issues effectively.
To hear the complete discussion and gain further insights from Erin, listen to the full episode of Beyond Taboo embedded below. Don’t miss this opportunity to explore these crucial topics with one of the leading experts in the field.
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